赞扬的益处 1 k) ^7 m- ~ ]+ i: z; wIt was the end of my exhausting first day as a waitress in a busy New York restaurant. My cap had gone awry, my apron was stained, my feet ached. The loaded trays I carried felt heavier and heavier. Weary and discouraged, I didn‘t seem able to As I made out a complicated check for a family with several children who had changed their ice-cream , I was ready to quit. - O2 n {# J% @; l& b) W- D4 O# E
我在纽约一家繁忙餐馆做女招待的第一天就要结束了,我的帽子歪了,围裙上污迹斑斑,两脚疼痛难忍。盛着食物的托盘让我感觉越来越沉重。我又疲倦又沮丧,似乎什么事情都没能干好。有一个带着好几个小孩的人家,他们在要冰激凌时换来换去多达十几次,就在我为他们开好复杂和账单时,我准备辞职不干了。 & V5 e7 I: O5 w4 t3 O
Then the father smiled at me as he handed me tip. “Well done,” he said. “You’ve looked after us really well.” & p7 V) k8 L6 P: w& C( t2 R" A& p
这时,那位当父亲一边把小费递给我,一边对我微笑。“干得不错,”他说,“你对我们照顾得真周到。” % p5 F: X. k9 c4 e
Suddenly my tiredness vanished. I smiled back, and later, when the manager asked me how I‘d liked my first day, I said, “Fine!” Those few words of praise had changed everything. 0 Z% p4 n/ ]* a
顿时,我的倦意消失了。我对他也报以微笑。天上班的感觉时,我说:“好极了!”那不多的几个赞美之辞改变了一切。