How to deal with peer pressure?
8 c3 V+ x+ d- M/ G College students are often obsessed by peer pressure from their classmates or schoolmates. Facing others’ hard work and good performance in academic and other aspects, many students feel great pressure.
6 @, v' I c4 s9 [, i/ z Then, how to deal with this kind of peer pressure? The following measures can be taken. 7 ?+ f6 z' O- W @7 e' v+ M. U
First, you should take a careful look at your present level and set a practical object. You needn’t always compare yourselves with those on the top and just make your efforts towards your object. & ?- Q& {5 H/ ~9 m' M; T
Second, under peer pressure, you shouldn’t feel discouraged and pressed. Instead, you should make it your motivation for harder work. 1 }) G1 d$ ?2 @# S5 t' j% H# s
Finally, if you find pressure is nearly beyond your control, you’d better turn to professional psychological guidance. 0 l+ x: b" l: k: r, m) C( K% d" m7 `
As a college student, I have no way to avoid peer pressure, so I try to figure out the way to do with it well. I set my own goal, including my practical level and my position among the peers. Because of my focus on my own goal, I have no time and energy to think about the pressure. So I’m little troubled by it. * Y* A! }. ^) h o
To conclude, we should not escape from peer pressure, but learn to make best use of it, since it can hardly be avoided. |
发表于 2012-8-14 00:48:47
