When you start talking about good and bad manners you immediately start
& |4 T2 T5 q1 N1 T' C9 P' l meeting difficulties. Many people just cannot agree what they mean. We asked a
0 R! q( \3 Q7 m* o; Q) M lady, who replied that she thought you could tell a well-mannered person on the __1__
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walks down a street he or she is constantly unaware of others. Such people never __2__, u H3 {2 }. x" P
bump into other people.
( d+ n) C4 j6 T' V& P2 L5 M2 b However, a second person thought that this was more a question of
1 p5 A" R7 \. u3 p3 X( y civilized behavior as good manners. Instead, this other person told us a story, __3__
) k# M/ S R- D- C$ o0 k; @5 S9 F, }% i it he said was quite well-known, about an American who had been invited __4__
O, q( T3 T; v+ w2 Y% y to an Arab meal at one of the countries of the Middle East. The American __5__
5 I6 A9 R$ ~& U2 t' F! r2 \+ x hasn’t been told very much about the kind of food he might expect. If he had __6__. k& T$ a+ w- o4 w1 U
known about American food, he might have behaved better. __7__
7 a/ v0 `) @/ x; ]. w Immediately before him was a very flat piece of bread that looked, to
4 Q9 Q( f2 @" t5 d6 x) }/ v0 B him, very much as a napkin. Picking it up, he put it into his collar, so that __8__* }/ X* o) r# i# b7 E9 O9 {
it falls across his shirt. His Arab host, who had been watching, __9__, z& v5 N3 E7 c1 p7 @. o7 y
said of nothing, but immediately copied the action of his guest. __10__* r3 S: D* _. ]
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And that, said this second person, was a fine example of good manners. |