托福阅读：快乐的人更有魅力

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快乐的生活是令人人都向往的，快乐的伴侣也是如此。下面的新托福考试阅读练习材料会告诉我们，快乐的人为何更能吸引异性。
( }: b# ^$ W) v; I" CSingles who have trouble finding a date may be suffering from unresolved grief， which can block love， a US author suggests.
" F% e; e4 z( h  s美国一名作家称求偶受挫的单身人士可能苦闷忧虑、难以释怀，而这些情愫会让爱情避而远之。中华考试网
+ J! A0 N4 X! L  IAurora Winter， author of From Heartbreak to Happiness， says loneliness， disappointment and anger are all symptoms of grief and studies show most people suffer from unresolved grief.
# ~) U4 a9 i/ r5 P7 G《从心碎到幸福》的作者欧若拉 文特称孤独、失望和愤懑都是苦闷心情的典型症状，而研究表明大部分人都有难以释怀的经历。中华考试网
“Divorce， death and disappointments can all hurt your chances of finding love -- without you knowing it. Unresolved grief blocks love. I can tell you from personal experience that no one wants to compete with a ghost，” Winter， who founded the Grief Coach Academy after the sudden death of her husband at age 33， says in a statement. “People who have lost a spouse to death frequently yearn for their late husband or wife.”中华考试网(www．Examw。com)
文特33岁时丈夫去世，随后建立了悲痛援助学院，她在一份声明中说：“离婚、死亡和失望等会不知不觉影响你找到新爱的几率。无法释怀的苦闷会将爱情关在门外。依我个人经验来看，没有谁愿意和你过去的某人争夺爱情。痛失伴侣的人往往对去世的一半念念不忘。”
1 U$ M- V- W) fIt‘s a very small step between resenting one’s former partner and being bitter at the opposite sex in general -- including your date -- but to find love， it is absolutely essential that people heal unresolved grief from prior relationships， Winter advises.
: m6 ]7 w- r. C  m/ s6 V, a2 f人们总是易于因对前任心怀怨恨而在异性面前惆怅或刻薄，甚至约会时也这样。然而文特建议，要找到爱情，就得对过去的感情完全释怀。
“The most attractive people are genuinely happy，”Aurora says in a statement. “People want to be around happy people. Happy people get the best dates， the best jobs and the best opportunities.”
7 T. A9 p: J3 \8 j! C“Happiness is feeling good about the present and optimistic about the future，”Aurora says.
她在声明中称：“异性最青睐的就是真正快乐的人，喜欢和他们相处。开心的人总能找到最好的伴侣、工作和最佳的机会。快乐就是真正享受现在，乐观对待未来。”