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When my first child was born, my mother-in-law said to me:“Motherhood is wonderful just as long as you remember that A Mother’s Place is in the Wrong. No matter what you do, your children will blame you. , e* Z. |; V0 U& o; t- p
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Since that time, almost nine years ago, I have carefully monitored mothers and their growing offspring to verify this maxim, and found that indeed it contains much truth. $ N6 J3 i* R& L
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For example, if a mother stints herself to the point of starvation to send her darling to a good boarding school, the darling will turn round years later and accuse her of being a snob who deprived her of everyday family life. j4 G2 P! d6 ]0 |
2 u5 T1 y) ]3 I" J8 D' a" \ If, on the other hand, a mother sends her little lamb to the local neighbourhood school; the little lamb will grumble years later that his parents didn’t give a fig for education and that is why he is illiterate and on the dole. 3 i; e0 g6 P3 u( ^$ e) z+ k. i
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If a women has a job, her children will speak mournfully of the experience of being latchkey kids who never knew what it was to come home to the j oy and security of a mum baking bread in the kitchen. 6 C' C$ Z* O( u( r1 s
* _) r" O* h& ~ If a women does not work, her daughter will afterwards describe her old mum as a . v3 m- }1 A8 B4 f) i9 W) ^5 V
“suburban cabbage” who never “fulfilled herself”. ( M6 k3 S2 y- s" H! t2 w7 @# c8 _
# X3 g% D3 c' N5 R5 c If a women endures a painful and difficult marriage for the sake of the children, she will be told by those children, when grow-up, that she was an absolute fool to put up with it and should have walked out years ago. + l; R1 P4 X6 _
: O# x8 l" B" N If she considers it to be best to end the marriage, they will accuse her of causing them “paternal deprivation syndrome ”and obliging them to grow up in “a one-parent situation”.
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+ K) ^& {1 |' G If you try to shield your children from the weary realities of life, they will say you were absurdly overprotective.
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If you try to share your troubles with them, they will say that you overburdened them with responsibilities and cheated them of their childhood. 5 C6 @( L- D0 M, m- y# b( O8 |1 r: c
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If you have but a single child, the child will say afterwards that you selfishly deprived it of siblings, and will tell sad stories about the loneliness of its childhood. , C; v4 \, e( F! @' z. \/ C
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If you have two children, they will describe their family background as typical, stereotyped, neurotic, introverted-a nuclear family. Truly, a mother’s place is in the wrong-and, yea, it goes on even unto the third generation. ( Z( k _( [2 p
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When your children encounter trouble or difficulties as adults, in their own marriages or in their personalities, whom do they blame? You’ve got it in one: mother! * `6 N* o5 i: q9 n$ `, R5 \ F
0 ?9 ?* Z) e [6 f9 g" D16. Having thought about her mother-in-law’s advice, the author_________.
3 w& L/ W1 U( A6 j0 H A. was inclined to doubt the advice $ f, Q$ @6 J5 ]6 ~3 E
B. interviewed women whose children had grown up
; Y1 o) |* t5 H, @7 ?1 R. i C. decided to put the advice to the test
w! n$ r, Z6 h' h4 y D. asked adults about their childhood
/ p1 U1 j7 ^/ E* s7 Z17. The passage suggests that local schools______________. ( d3 [, d- Z2 P' _7 _& _. b* J
A. make children feel insecure
5 z8 s( @6 g* q- Y B. have a poor educational record 1 d. y# Z9 B5 t- G) M. q
C. allow children too much freedom
0 f! C7 P, n. C3 v+ ~1 j! F D. are for the children of “suburban cabbages " i) G; i0 o* A2 c/ W# s' l. C
18.According to the passage, a women who divorces her husband will___________.
/ B1 }. C& E5 P; ^5 a' L& H A. be backed by her children / |4 j% q# U9 y- i( j
B. be blamed by her children
- ?: ~0 w5 v! f4 S L: T C. usually blame her husband
) \6 P5 U' Y/ t5 x4 T* ~& @) u8 ` D. soon lose the children’s affection
9 w; p1 ]& d4 w19. It can be concluded from the passage that mother________. # o3 p5 [. Y' E5 H% i. G s. s
A. are willing to take the blame 5 V" s! E8 Q! ]
B. are blamed unfairly
8 A+ C. q) G0 Q5 q C. can not be blameless
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20. What would be the best title for this passage? 5 ^4 u$ T; M! h' [' B
A. A Great Mother Should Fulfill Herself . w) p f! n/ N- y# _! W" q
B. A Typical And Stereotyped Family * n3 K& B) O* ~" z8 E" W
C. The Generation Gap
& r. ^# ]/ w- N2 W) }" a l D. Motherhood Is A No-Win Situation |