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Who are the best teachers in our life? In my opinion, the first teachers we have in our lives in  
/ p- c5 f! H' E* W7 v* H0 r& p8 P0 Omost cases are our parents. They teach us to walk, to speak, and to have good manners before we reach "the real world. " More than even the professional teachers that we have in school, parents are generally the most involved in the development and education of children.  
  
% v) P  Q% z; t! G+ \  bThe main reason for my view is that our parents are the best teachers at the beginning of our lives,  
which actually corresponds to the parents’ role in nature. Parents are most committed and  
5 W0 w" U8 q! o3 k# linvolved in teaching their children; they have a kind of instinct to sacrifice a part of themselves  
for the betterment of their children. They love us and have great patience while passing down  
their knowledge to us. They wish us a success and thus will not teach us bad things. And of  
( e( C% F" P  i/ Ocourse, implicit learning occurs when children unconsciously copy some of their parents’ habits  
; @% S! k8 a. z! D; H1 Z% Band styles of behavior.  
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8 R1 }2 T! t9 K7 `  s2 M" B  L, z( {Also, during the second stage of child development, adolescence, parents can still be in the best  
position to offer advice even though the children might not accept it. In this case, perhaps the  
child’s friends would be the best teachers. Adolescents are notoriously rebellious in many cultures  
and may automatically reject any advice from their parents. My first marriage for instance, was  
1 @) p" j0 f" W$ `0 r+ Y% _solely a matter of doing the opposite when my parents tried to intrude in offering their advice. So  
; @  T+ Z/ S2 s- Q* g$ ]: ?in such matters, parents should be much more flexible and be rather the partners with their  
children. So we can see that being a teacher of growing child become more and more complicated  
case as the time passes and many parents are simply not able to meet the increased demands.  
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On the other hand, I would say that parents are not professional teachers and they tend to be very biased by their love of their children. So wishing good things and an easy life may prevent  
4 I9 K" L+ \1 y$ x: e0 \0 J# Achildren from maturation. In any case, parents usually can present only one viewpoint of the  
, u( D3 q# x. T* |' c- \world, while good teaching should be based on different attitudes. Thus, when children go to  
" \/ c8 O1 O$ M% \7 Vschool and have a great diversity of teachers, they learn much more than their parents could  
2 m8 @3 G; `9 }7 s$ G3 Vprobably give them. Furthermore, once our parents get older, they become more conservative and cannot always be objective in regard to modern trends and fashions. Thus we need to take their advice with caution during that period. However, some kind of intuition which I believe shared  
) q: L6 `  J" k( hbetween relatives about what everybody needs and great love which exists in a families still  
makes our parents very good teachers and advisers at any time.  
  
In short, while parents are not the ideal teachers, and well-rounded children will generally need a great diversity of teachers in their lives in order to have a more accurate view of the world,  
parents are generally the most committed of all teachers and have the greatest emotional  
% N. f) a( Y6 |; Qinvestment in their children and their future.  
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$ x2 v+ ]; D1 c* ?; m(Essay ID: 74 . Sample essay provided by Erin Billy of www.TestMagic.com)